When Support Feels Performative: A Laid-Off Employee’s View of LinkedIn Solidarity
Dr. Kai Dupe • May 17, 2025
The disconnect stems from the fact that a large portion of these messages come from people who are still employed.
In the wake of Microsoft’s recent layoffs—where nearly 6,000 employees lost their jobs—LinkedIn has been flooded with posts expressing sympathy, solidarity, and support. On the surface, this seems like a heartening show of empathy from the tech community. But for many of those who were actually laid off, these posts aren’t comforting—they’re frustrating.
The disconnect stems from the fact that a large portion of these messages come from people who are still employed. Often, the tone of these posts centers the poster’s own emotional experience—“I survived the layoffs, but it’s been tough,” or “I’m so grateful to still be here.” While those feelings may be genuine, they can feel tone-deaf to someone who’s facing the loss of income, health insurance, and career stability.
There’s also a rising concern about virtue signaling. Posts filled with heartfelt language but void of any actionable support—like job leads, referrals, or offers to review resumes—can feel more like personal brand-building than meaningful solidarity. Some laid-off employees report reaching out to posters offering “help,” only to be met with silence. The disappointment runs deep when gestures of support turn out to be more about optics than assistance.
Even well-meaning encouragement, such as “This is a time of growth and opportunity,” can land poorly when the reality for many includes rent payments, visa concerns, and limited safety nets. Toxic positivity doesn’t erase the fear and uncertainty that come with a layoff.
So what does real support look like? It’s quiet. It’s direct. It’s tangible. Reposting a former colleague’s “open to work” post. Making an introduction to a hiring manager. Offering to be a reference. Or simply reaching out privately to ask, “How can I help?”
For those eager to show solidarity, the advice is simple: shift the spotlight away from yourself. Center the person who’s impacted. And if you post publicly, follow through privately.
In times like these, empathy matters—but action speaks louder than words. Especially on LinkedIn.
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